Ok i need some opinions here?
so im getting stalked . hardcore. about a year ago, this person messaged me and wanted to talk to me, and he was my age. So i just imed him and we chatted about casual stuff. and then i signed off. then about a week or so later, i kept receiving a lot of messages from this kid, saying that he wanted to talk to me again because he missed me SO much. so i got a little weirded out by it and didnt respond anymore, because then the kid started saying he wanted a relationship. we BARELY talked . ever since then hes been trying to contact me because he feels really sad that we havent been in contact for so long. even to this day, he still tries to get in touch with me. he even had some girl call my house last night to see if i was there. he lives in california, i live on the east coast! its been ONE YEAR and he still continues to do this. and once again, weve barely ever talked!! and he keeps asking for my cell number. so do you think im right to defend myself in this situation, because i feel like hes being a straight-up creep, and i kinda feel like i might be in some danger, considering he found out my house number to call me.
he says im the ridiculous one now, because all he wants is a friendship ( *cough* B.S. *cough*), and that im taking this too far.
Do you think im overreacting too much, or that i should really be defending myself here?