I want him so bad!!!!!?
So normally I'm good with boys and stuff like that but this situation is tricky so I thought I'd ask advice.
I'm in an open relationship with my BF but we don't advertize it as open because when we did, I got tired of turning people down. For some reason they thought that it meant I'm more likely to wanna sleep with them than if and when I was single.
However, we're still allowed to hook up with other people and sometimes do.
So there's this guy who I relaly, really wanna sleep with. My BF knows and is comfortable with it as we're in an open relationship and honest with each other.
Problem is, he's mine and my BF's mutual friend (but he's only known me for a few weeks and known my BF for years) and while enjoys flirting with me, for all he knows I'm off limits, being his friend's GF and all that.
I like him and I know he thinks I'm hot and that if I were single or he knew we're in an open relationship he'd sleep with me.
But he doesn't know, and I don't know how to come onto him. Because despite flirting he's keeping distance (for obvious reasons.)
Normally I'd just be very upfront, it works every time. But the tricky thing is, he's not just some hot guy, I enjoy his company a lot etc. But I do want him real bad. But I don't wanna make things real awkward.
Any advice??
Thanks guys!!!
PS. PLEASE save your time and mine and DON'T tell me it's a bad idea. I'm looking for friendly advice on how to reach my goal, not guilt-tripping. Thanks!