I want him so bad!!!!!?

So normally I'm good with boys and stuff like that but this situation is tricky so I thought I'd ask advice. I'm in an open relationship with my BF but we don't advertize it as open because when we did, I got tired of turning people down. For some reason they thought that it meant I'm more likely to wanna sleep with them than if and when I was single. However, we're still allowed to hook up with other people and sometimes do. So there's this guy who I relaly, really wanna sleep with. My BF knows and is comfortable with it as we're in an open relationship and honest with each other. Problem is, he's mine and my BF's mutual friend (but he's only known me for a few weeks and known my BF for years) and while enjoys flirting with me, for all he knows I'm off limits, being his friend's GF and all that. I like him and I know he thinks I'm hot and that if I were single or he knew we're in an open relationship he'd sleep with me. But he doesn't know, and I don't know how to come onto him. Because despite flirting he's keeping distance (for obvious reasons.) Normally I'd just be very upfront, it works every time. But the tricky thing is, he's not just some hot guy, I enjoy his company a lot etc. But I do want him real bad. But I don't wanna make things real awkward. Any advice?? Thanks guys!!! PS. PLEASE save your time and mine and DON'T tell me it's a bad idea. I'm looking for friendly advice on how to reach my goal, not guilt-tripping. Thanks!

still struggling with a howling puppy?

hi had pup 3 weeks now and am busy crate training her....however after following all the advice i have been given it just is not getting any better...no matter what i try she goes mental when i leave the house and can hear her howling and barking as im coming up the path or leaving. i love her too bits but im at wits end as i feel like im being trapped at home because of a dog who cant be left alone? is 3 weeks still early days or is this a case of separation anxiety??????? just no matter what i try it is def not getting any better?????? puppy is now 11 weeks old and from all the other advice i got it came across that basically it should take a couple of weeks max for her to feel ok to be left alone but nothing?????? please help...i just want her to be happy here and for me to be able to leave the house without any issues!!!!!!

How do I organize my ipod?

So a few weeks back while I was syncing music onto my iPod, something magical happened. It completely alphabetized all the artists on my iPod. All the bands that started with the word "the" were all together, and same thing with all the bands that started with the word "A" :) It was soo easy to find everything and all my music was where it was supposed to be. that is until recently, about two days ago, I again added music onto my ipod and when It finished syncing all of the artists were scattered again. anyone know how to fix this?

why is my hair fallin out from roots and breaking and thinning?

in july 2009 i noticed that my hair had broken about 2 inches from the roots on one side of my head. looked like it had been layered. a short while after i noticed the other side did the same thing. these eventually seemed to grow but now when i look back at photos from july 2009 my hair is now approx 5 inches shorter than it was then ive only had it cut once. it is also really realky thin now too. Looks like a silly rats tail when its in a pony tail. Its also coming out from the root as it has wot looks like a litlle white bulb on the end of the hair when its falls out but is also still breakin. i was my hair most days due to being athletic and running most days so of course my hair gets sweaty and i wash and condition most days with tresemme. my diet is ok eatin the right amount of normal foods fruit etc etc... the one big thing is i use laxatives for IBS. I used lactualose everyday for over a year but its quite a natural product so doesnt cause long term effects... i then started using laxatives pills for a year or so then changed to laxative chocolate which i now take daily and have done for over 2 years.. im meant to take one a night and i take 6-8 a night otherwise they dont work. im wondering if all the nutrients in my body r being flushed away hence my hair is suffering. Ive used laxatives for over 10 years but always used natural products recommended by doctor. the exlax chocolate that i take now not recommended. i need some advice off a hair specialist or nutrientist PLEASE!!! im desperate and my hair is now sooo bad im not wanting to go out. im 37 and a fitness instuctor and feel sooo drepressed. my hair was beautiful and i loved it. I have highlights put in my hair but nothing major so i no its not that causing it. but coz its breaking from the root its quite a serious problem.... please help x

Where can I get a smaller (size) video card?

I recently purchased this: Acer Black AX3400G-U4802 Desktop PC with AMD Athlon II X2 Dual-Core 255 Processor and Windows 7 Home Premium (64-bit) (http://www.walmart.com/ip/Acer-AX3400G-U4802/15686808). I bought a 9600 GSO PCI-E 2.0 x 16 since there was a PCI-E x16 expansion port in the tower. However, the tower is smaller than norm so the card was too big size-wise. What should I be looking at in terms of size? I want to spend between $50 - $75, and don't need anything super high-end or anything.

Point of view from a Muslim on 2012 Solar Storm?

Salaam Walekum May peace be with you . I was thinking about this for a while , Scientist warn the world that a 2012 Solar storm will come & possibly kill people or end the world . I don't know what to believe because that is next year & there is still quite a few signs left till the day of Judgment , (Allah is knowing of all things) I know and I am aware that the last day can be any day But I want to know what a muslim's point of view is on this solar storm in 2012 , Wouldn't this be a sign of the last day if it was going to happen ? As a muslim convert , I'm so confused . I hope someone can help me with this topic . Thank you Brothers & sisters .

I've just met her, she's really emotional... how can I deal with this?

I met this girl, she seemed nice at first. But turns out she's over emotional about everything. I was going to see her last night but couldn't make it. Turns out she apparently got upset and started crying on a friend of hers. I only met her last friday and we've only been talking a week. Why would she get so upset? I'm not sure I can deal with that, watching every move I make incase it upsets her. I'm not a cold person, But If we did get into a relationship how worse could it be? Should I stop with her now before it gets too messy?

Question about My tax, Please help?

I made 5,747 tax out of 2 jobs. I guess they combined the 2 of them ( maybe i should of gave him one tax paper at a time ) . Anyways, i only getting back 1200 bucks back. or 1300 bucks or under 1200. I claim myself and no kids. But that doesn't sound right to me, what do you think? I think someone did my taxes wrong, i should of least got back my guess under 3000. So what are they saying, they took over 4000 bucks back, where does that go? I thought tax time was suppose to be a good time, obviously its not in my case lol

should i ask my friend that i have been sorta scared of that has multiple personality disorder about his..?

should i be asking him questions about his friends in his head ones name is elizabeth and ones called jazmine am i getting myself into trouble talking to him and about the people he has in his mind?? iv been worried sooner he once planed in his head with Elizabeth to massacre the school like kill the children and he got help sorta.. u cant really medicate it i think only talk it out and his been telling me his planing it but he hasn't been telling other people isunno should i be asking this im curious but i don't want to get myself in trouble with him and he likes me to.. so im scared he might do something to him to get with me.

What could I add to this tattoo to make it more unique?

Hey guys! I am considering getting a tattoo of this image ---> http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v603/GCxBamRocksxCG/BanksyBalloonGirl.png However, I want to add something to it to make it more unique. Perhaps words somewhere around the balloons or somewhere else? The problem is, my creative juices just don't seem to be flowing for this one so I could really use some help. I'm thinking something creative/poetic that is inspirational and meaningful. Maybe something about childhood? Any ideas are welcome! Thanks so much! xoxo -Mal